
A HPs of ours was trying desperately to conceive, we made a huge fertility ritual for her, and while she did not conceive, a baby came her way and she adopted him. I also know of other couples that as soon as they stopped "trying"...it happened. I think the stress of wanting to get pregnant, throws a monkey wrench into the picture. Emotions are a really big part of the overall picture. I have another friend that when they gave up and adopted a child...a year later she became pregnant. You guys are young...how long have you been married? maybe live it up for now? and while you are out there being footloose and wild...who knows?
I wish you the best solution, and many blessings.
Firebird