For those who have ever been under the thumb of a Narcissist, this is how they erode your way of thinking, making you doubt yourself. Most narcissists know what they are doing when they doing it, it is meant to control you. Cults use this all the time.
They create cognitive dissonance leaving one scrambling to make sense out of the senseless.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h-eQ2bR1HFk
Several Psychology Today articles explain why it happens and it isn't because one is uneducated.
1. The need to reduce uncertainty and make sense of the world.
2. The need to feel safe and in control.
3. The need to cultivate a good self-image.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog ... y-theories
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog ... y-theories
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog ... e-internet
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conspirac ... e_note-110Some psychologists believe that a search for meaning is common in conspiracism. Once cognized, confirmation bias and avoidance of cognitive dissonance may reinforce the belief. In a context where a conspiracy theory has become embedded within a social group, communal reinforcement may also play a part.[107]
Stepping away from a cult mindset is probably like trying to quit smoking or worse maybe heroin . Also when one has been enamored by someone who lied to them but we believed, you now also have to deal with the process of shaking the effects of Stockholm syndrome.
BB, FF