Spell for Handling Emotional Pain?(+My Personal Drama)

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Spell for Handling Emotional Pain?(+My Personal Drama)

Postby Tornadofire-Sylva » Thu Feb 02, 2017 3:15 pm

This is so cliche, I know, but last year, from september to december, I spent the majority of my time with a guy I thought was absolutely amazing. He was sweet, he was understanding, among many other things. I'd been lonely for a long time and he was everything I'd ever wanted, which wasn't much. Then, after promising he'd still talk to me, he left my city, and went home. He started ignoring my messages, even the ones asking if he was okay after all the severe weather in our state. Then, he blocks me. Lo and behold, he posts a couple photos of this girl on social media, and as it turns out, that was the girlfriend he'd had long before I came along. I was entertainment while he was waiting to go back to her. I'm hurt, and the only help I've gotten thus far is everyone telling me to get over him. There wasn't any closure, no telling me to stop or that he didn't want me, no nothing. I'm lost and still absolutely shattered over this whole situation, three months later.

Is there any spell or magical aid that would be good for a situation like this? I go through things like this far too often, and all my friends do too. Not only would it be really good for right now, it would also be useful to put in my binder of shadows.
(Thanks in advance, even if you read this far :lol: I know that was a lot of me, whining, to read.)
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Re: Spell for Handling Emotional Pain?(+My Personal Drama)

Postby Bychan Wulf » Thu Feb 02, 2017 3:28 pm

I'm so sorry you had to go through all that! Emotional wounds are the worst. I hope you will feel better soon; many blessings!
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Re: Spell for Handling Emotional Pain?(+My Personal Drama)

Postby SpiritTalker » Thu Feb 02, 2017 4:24 pm

You're only human. The only tip I can offer is to recall that you are an attractive person who appealed to someone with the apparent qualities you liked, in spite of the short-term nature of the friendship. We don't have to "get over it", we get through it and we're smarter, stronger and less gullible because of it.

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Re: Spell for Handling Emotional Pain?(+My Personal Drama)

Postby Firebird » Sat Mar 17, 2018 11:58 am

How are you doing now?
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Re: Spell for Handling Emotional Pain?(+My Personal Drama)

Postby MsMollimizz » Sun Mar 18, 2018 6:16 pm


Sometimes dear Lady, when things seem to good to be true...
they most of the time are-more to the story than you are
being told... The lesson embedded aren't always obvious.
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Re: Spell for Handling Emotional Pain?(+My Personal Drama)

Postby Tornadofire-Sylva » Thu May 10, 2018 10:35 pm

I meant to do an update! All of your advice was spot-on, and what I really needed, even if I didn't reply. (Curse you, procrastination!) Not a week after I posted this, my best friend introduced me properly to a friend of his. (I'd met him before, but not that well.) We hit it off instantly! Now? I'm living hundreds of miles away from my abusive family, and happily married to the kindest, most supportive, and bravest man I've ever met. If I'd have stayed pining after this awful fellow I'd never be living the amazing life I am now.
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Re: Spell for Handling Emotional Pain?(+My Personal Drama)

Postby Ashrend » Fri May 11, 2018 1:29 am

Congratulations, I'm glad your happy and safe

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Postby SpiritTalker » Fri May 11, 2018 6:31 pm

Best blessings. Wonderful news.

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Re: Spell for Handling Emotional Pain?(+My Personal Drama)

Postby Firebird » Sat May 12, 2018 3:03 am

Congratulations! Very Happy for you. :fairy:
Say I was wondering, would you care to share a picture? All I can think of is that adorable one with your sister. Maybe a wedding photo?
Any how good to hear you're moving on. Is your hubby pagan friendly?
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Re: Spell for Handling Emotional Pain?(+My Personal Drama)

Postby Tornadofire-Sylva » Thu Aug 23, 2018 11:20 am

Hello! Finally able to reply because I've got pictures now. We had a quick wedding, and are planning a nicer vow ceremony. (Army life... everything happens by someone else's watch.) So only one good picture! Had to fight for it, too.
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He is pretty pagan-friendly! He doesn't know much but he's willing to learn.
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Postby Firebird » Thu Aug 23, 2018 11:35 am

you're still cute as a button! loveface the two of you look very sweet together. Many blessings for a great life!
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