Good Luck for a Troubled Loved One

[Aesiryth]

Hi there been a while since I've been on here.

I need some help. I've kind of left magick in the closet lately and I haven't done anything with it in a very long while and I actually planned on never picking it up again. But this occasion calls for it. My girlfriend, whom I love very much, has horrible luck. It's so bad that it's to the point where it would seem like someone is deliberately doing it to her. I won't go into details for privacy sake but I will say that in the matter of almost a month she has had family die, failing classes, suicidal tendencies, and just little things that you see come with bad luck. I need and want to make it all go away for her. Even if it's at the price of my luck. I just can't see her go through it anymore and I need someone to help me out with a spell or ritual, just a way that I know will work.

Thanks,
-Aesiryth

[SnowCat]

I would suggest doing spells for healing and clarity. It's really tough to have things piling up like that. Bless you for being there and for wanting to help her. Spells for mental and emotional strength for both of you would probably be in order too. Please just don't do anything without her consent. I know that you want to do the right thing, but please remember not to manipulate her in the process. Steering her towards good old fashioned counseling wouldn't be a bad idea either.

Snow

[fieldmouse]

I'm so sorry all this has happened.

There are instructions for a charm bag to break a string of bad luck here. http://www.everythingunderthemoon.net/s ... d-luck.htm
I don't know if breaking bad luck will achieve what your girlfriend needs, but charm bags or bottles are an easy way to involve her in the process, and I find in times of sadness it helps to have something physical. Maybe look up herbs, stones, etc. with the properties Snow suggested: healing and clarity, emotional strength, and construct a charm bag with things you have or can easily obtain.

Actually, a better healing pouch in my opinion would be this, to help a friend in pain:
http://www.everythingunderthemoon.net/s ... n-pain.htm
(Please read the paragraphs leading up to the spell - they're important.)
Once things are better and the pouch can be taken apart, the list will make a lovely keepsake for your girlfriend too.

But you mustn't rely on magic to completely solve problems as deep as these. If she has access to counselling, she should try it. If she needs anti-depressants, there's no shame in that. Please look to medicine before magic.

Best wishes for you both.

[Aesiryth]

Thank you both for your suggestions, I will gladly take them into consideration. I forgot to mention that she goes to a therapist every week and has meds. So both of those are out of the question. And like I mentioned before, magick is kind of a last resort for me. I am definitely going to check those spells out mentioned though. Thank you again.

[Firebird]

Good to see you Aesiryth!
I just wanted to say I will be sending good thoughts.
Death alone can put one into a state that makes things feel like they are falling apart, in our minds and in actuality. I'm glad you are there to support her, remember to take care of yourself too, so that you can continue to be there for her. Keep in mind things pass, how are you both doing now? Snow suggested clarity spells, these would really help to get a grip on where within her this is coming from.
Bb, Firebird

[Aesiryth]

Good to see you Aesiryth!
I just wanted to say I will be sending good thoughts.
Death alone can put one into a state that makes things feel like they are falling apart, in our minds and in actuality. I'm glad you are there to support her, remember to take care of yourself too, so that you can continue to be there for her. Keep in mind things pass, how are you both doing now? Snow suggested clarity spells, these would really help to get a grip on where within her this is coming from.
Bb, Firebird

Things are going pretty well now. She still doesn't have the best of luck, but it's not as bad. I didn't cast any spells, though, as she didn't feel like she needed it.
Thanks for asking!

-Aesiryth