Acceptable spells?

[DeletedUser]

I'm currently doing my year and a day, well just started yesterday officially. I have a couple of ideas for spells in the future. I know I am ahead of myself but I'm testing myself to see if I'm in the correct mindset.

I have been battling depression for a while and I was thinking that once I get experience I could find or create a spell that pulls positive energy to me and pushes the negative away.

The other isn't about me but my girlfriend. She has a dark past and suffers from depression, PTSD, anxiety from it. So I would find or create a spell that would make her feel better and take her mind off of the past.

Would those two be acceptable? I haven't gotten that far in my study and I am confused about the "what you put out comes back to you 3 times" would these be counted as good?

[SnowCat]

Greetings Feare. When you have a minute, please post on over to our intro section and tell us a bit about yourself.

Snow

[DeletedUser]

Greetings Feare. When you have a minute, please post on over to our intro section and tell us a bit about yourself.

Snow

I've already done that I haven't posted in a bit but decided to actually start the year and a day yesterday

[Heartsong]

I think that both of those spells would be very positive, Feare. You're encouraging positive energy to come into your life as well as your girlfriend's and I see no harm in that.

I haven't gotten that far in my study and I am confused about the "what you put out comes back to you 3 times" would these be counted as good?

I think you're referring to the Threefold Law here? If so, the way that I understand it is that it serves as a reminder that basically, what goes around comes around. Every action has an equal reaction. Positive actions will result in positive reactions and the same can be said for negative ones as well. Your intentions seem to be good, so yes, the spells you're talking about would encourage positivity to come back to you and your girlfriend because you're putting positive energy out with them.

[DeletedUser]

Thank you! Yes I was talking about the threefold law, I didn't know the name at the time. You also explained my next question

[Heartsong]

Happy to help

[Silversong]

I would suggest trying to put out positive energy as much as you can muster along with doing these, courtesy of that Rule of Three (another name for the Threefold Law, the one I learned it by). It helps more than you'd think. In the meantime - blessed be, Feare! Lord and Lady be with you and your girlfriend both.

Bright blessings,
Silver

[Obsidian]

There is an African proverb which says 'beware a naked man who offers you his shirt.' I don't mean this next part to sound bitchy so my apologies if it comes across that way.

I think that first and foremost you must be happy with yourself and your life before you can offer that to someone else. I note from the order of your spells your talked about yourself first and then your girlfriend so I think you might already be priotitising things in that order. I see no problem with that just as long as you have experienced these things for yourself as I think this will make your spells for someone else more effective.

Secondly, if you're just wishing general good things for your girlfriend (or anyone) I think that's acceptable. It's not as if you're wishing for certain things to happen that will interfere with their free will.