Inner peace for another

[Moonface]

I want to help someone without them knowing. I would like to I help this person achieve inner peace. and also to remove all bad negative things from them that are causing the inner conflict. In a sense it's kind of like an extreme binding spell because it is both binding and banish. I know that the main things that represent purity are salt, olive oil, white candles, and white ribbon. So I would just like to keep it to those items as I like to do simple ingredients magic.Ideas? Commons? Thoughts or concerns. Please feel free and post away this might be helpful for some of you as well.

So far I'm thinking this
Waning Moon
Eat, have a shower (just before bed)
White candle (carve the name of the person in it)
Olive oil (anoint your forehead and heart while clearing all negative thoughts)
White ribbon (write the persons name on that tie into a bow (to represent the infinity symbol) hold it while you meditate on their happiness, not for your own intentions. It has to be purely for them or it will not work!)
After pin or tie the ribbon in your hair for a week and take some time before bed each night to visualize them at peace, happy with themselves and any other good thoughts you can think of for them.After the last day of the week burn the ribbon and scatter the ashes in the wind and the wax break it apart and do the same, or if you have a favorite house plant put it into the soil. About a week or two later(maybe more), do a nice gesture for them to remind them they are loved,and deserve to feel all the things you wish for them( without telling them you've done this spell), a small gift, bake some cookies, home cooked meal, shoulder to cry on, whatever they need that you can manage.

What do ya think?

[watershield]

Nice thoughts, but you need to interact with their energy for it to work.

There are some that think that the only way this stuff works is if the other person becomes aware of your intent.
While that would make it easier, it's not totally true.
What it does require is a strong emotional connection with the target.

[Moonface]

Thanks for the input!
And valid point. It would be important that you share/shared a connection with them.

[Echo_of_shadows]

I like this. To me, maybe this should be treated as just wishing for someone to have inner peace, rather than focusing on binding and banishing aspects. I'm borrowing it for my own BOS. I can see a way to tweak this and combine it with a spell of mine to make something new. Thanks so much for sharing.

[Moonface]

No problem!
I'm still trying to get the hang of things, spells are very personal though so customize away! Glad I could help.