Need a spell to help my mother understand

[Witchy333]

I have recently been diagnosed with gender dysphoria so I am a transgender. My mother is a Christian and she keeps saying that she cannot understand this and that God made me male, so I am male. But I'm not. Anyway, I have tried everything I can think of to help my mother understand, but nothing is happening. I have asked the Goddess and meditated, but nothing has changed. So I have resorted to the last thing, magic. I cannot think of spell ideas.

All I need is a list of things like colours, oils, incense, crystals, etc. I can think of my own speech for the spell and how I will raise energy. Any correspondence ideas?

[wish4rain]

Air is a good representation of communication and enlightenment. Fire for transformation. Water for slow change and adulthood. Young or blossoming plants for change and growth.

However the best way to find things that correspond is to look for them yourself- when doing a money spell one person might choose the color green while the other might choose gold. Its different for everyone.

Also look at the seasons- Imbolc just passed and this is a great time for growth and change. Look to nature for correspondence.

[Lillady]

Witchy if you still need some enlightenment on your situation. I did some research and what I feel may be the best to help your mom understand what you are. My suggestion to help with her acceptance is to help maintain unconditional love, eventhough if it was me personally I am going to love my children no matter what and accept their choices etc in life. Either way just a suggestion I hope it helps

Every Full Moon light a white (blessing) and a pink (happiness) and black candle in gratitude to the Fates. View the Moon before you light them, then say:



The kind Fates have blessed my home,
The kind Fates have blessed my heart,
The kind Fates have blessed my loved ones,
I offer thanks with a humble heart.
I thank the Goddess for my life,
I thank the Goddess for my love.
I thank the Goddess for continued blessings
already on their way.
Blessed be.

*Also burn some high-quality incense. Do this each month to make your good fortune last.