In need of a few good confidence spells.

[TheFallenAngel]

I have had a negative self image of my self my whole life. Its getting to a point to where its becoming a problem in my marriage and I am desperate to change that.. Please help.

[Traumwandlerin]

If you just want to change for your marriage, than it will probably not change at all.

This will sound stupid, but you need to be gentle to yourself. You do a mistake? Maybe it was wrong, but it was not really your fault, or ok to do so. You probably haven't learned as much as you should have learned, maybe cause of your parents, or cause of lack of nutrition. Make excuses for yourself you tell yourself why it's ok to make this mistakes and doing it all wrong. Cause your inner self is perfect and nice, but there is something on top, which makes all the wrongs. Think of yourself like a child. A child does not know much, a child does a lot of stupid things. But telling this child how stupid it was, would be even more wrong, cause it can't do better at the moment. Instead you hug it and tell it not to be sad or mad about it, cause you still love it and know it will do better next time.

Hold yourself, be gentle. Everytime you make something that is a reflection of your negative selfimage, stop the negative thoughts and love yourself for being a child who needs love. Laugh happily at yourself if you regognize you have been mean to yourself again, cause you are a cute little fool and now you get a big hugging.

If you learn to be gentle and if you learn to laugh about yourself nicely, your self image will soon change. But be gentle and don't expect fast changes from yourself.

[ScarlettRose]

I have a few confidence spells(:

Calming Confidence Spell:

Put yourself in a comfortable position, close your eyes. Take deep calming breaths feeling your chest rise and fall.
Chant:
"Lord above, grant me wit beyond measure. Power to Treasure, bucket loads of confidence in myself, Protection That will never brake, and love to cherish forever more, so Blessed Be!"

Keep chanting until you feel a sense of great power flowing within your body making you feel like you're glowing with confidence. Maybe even repeat this spell everyday as long as you please.

Silver Confidence Spell:
You will need:
9 silver candles.
mirror.
lavender oil.
charcoal burner.
Pink Quartz.

Ritual:
arrange candles to form a circle around you and the mirror. Burn the lavender oil & cleanse the Pink Quartz.
Cast a pentacle circle of protection & light candles. Look into the mirror, stare at yourself and recite the following:
"I love myself, I trust myself, I have so much confidence in myself. Clear for me and all the see the love and beauty that is me and confidence that surrounds me. So Blessed Be."

Energize the crystal and repeat the chant eight times. Keep the quartz close to your heart.

I send blessings to you. & I Hope these work:)