Need a spell to open someone's eyes

[MoonbeamDancer]

Help!!!! My daughter is in a bad marriage. This is a second for both. He had a reputation for sleeping with anything in sight before they got together, which they did while she was still married to her first husband (separated but still married), she had 3 kids from first marriage, he had 1, they have 2 together.

He can be quite charming, tell you what you want to hear, etc. He is also a bully with a horrid temp. I have been on the receiving end of that temp and it is UGLY I would NEVER speak to another human that way, let alone my mother-in-law and father-in-law. We have had to ban him from our home for long periods of time d/t the verbal abuse directed towards us. She has also behaved this way - never would she talk to us that way before she married him.

She is desparetly unhappy, she doesn't think so, but other people see it, not just us. Our 3 grandchildren from her previous marriage have changed, they are not the happy go lucky kids they used to be, but are quite quiet and subdued, this bothers me greatly.

Yesterday, over a bottle of wine and girl talk, she confessed there had been physical abuse in the past (?), verbal abuse also. He told her if she ever tried to leave he would kill her and would cover up the evidence by chopping her up and feeding her to the hogs. What kind of man says this to someone he loves? She then backtracked and said, well that was a long time ago.

He is an alcoholic. I personally have never seen him without beer in his hand.

I suspect his money goes first to beer as we have loaned them several thousand dollars over the last few years, including 200 this morning to buy necessities.

She feels trapped I am sure, 5 kids, no skills, no way of leaving this tiny town for at least 16 years (when the youngest turns 18).

But, she is still very beautiful and sweet. There are still men in this town who would give their right arm to be with her, at least one is quite wealthy. She could get grants to go to school, she could get assistance to help with what the dumbass wouldn't pay her in child support (he is self employed so it is easy for him to hide money, I know he has done this from his first wife).

I need a spell to open her eyes, to give her strength, to see she has options should she choose to use them. I do not want to change her free will, just give her a boost so she can make decisions, what ever they may be.

Sorry this is so long, I have been beside myself and looked through everything I have looking for the right spell. Can anyone help?

Thanks

[gaiagirl97]

Go to the spell page for EUTM, Starwitch has a spell on there I have seen before it is to End a Bad Relationship/ Make a lover leave or somthing similar, if its not exactly what you are looking for you can rewrite it to suit your needs, good luck! Brightest Blessings