Help with drama/negativity

[Rhiamon]

Morning all

I have a family gathering on the weekend and, well my extended family does not get along very well.

My extended family can be very negative, full of drama, and will spend the whole day just nit picking on each other.

Each time we have a gathering (which is extremely rare) it always ends in tears and this time we have my mother who is still grieving the loss of my dad 12 months ago which her sisters believe that grief is only for a short period of time. My grandmother who wants to prove that she is independent even though she needs my mother and sister to help care for her, so she will become very nasty towards them during the day and my aunts who are drama queens. Even though I never take sides during the drama and keep out most of the time I can already feel tensions brewing to the point world war III may start

I am just wondering if there is anything I can do to help this gathering run smoothly??

Would a binding spell work to bind the negativity or drama??

thanks for your help with this
Rhi

[planewalker]

Rhaimon,

If you can hold the get together as an outdoor party or combination indoor/outdoor event, I f you can get any part outdoors find a way to get running water involved --fountain on a bird-bath or lawn sprinkler on low in movement around the boundary of the property to keep energy flowing. If it's going to be indoors, keep some water running near windows open to the outside.

Sage the house and tell all spirits of negativity to leave, outdoors too, if your neighbors are cool with it. When done salt all doors and windows [property lines] and proclaim that all negativity from "ANY" source must stay away. Of course, living individuals aren't as well behaved as most beings that you would normally do this for,

You can always go with mundane ways to "work" the room. Ask your mom and aunt To Please go easy on grandma because she just is having trouble growing old gracefully and that makes her unpleasant, Ask grandma to go easy on mom and aunt because she reminds them that growing old gracefully isn't a strong point of either of them. Talk to the aunts and tell them that you want to just let her grieving process go and not make anything of it. Ask which ever drama queen likes her ego stroked to "NOT say anything but help keep these squabbles to a minimum" for whatever queen your trying it on.

Have someplace you can be alone even if it's a few moments here and a few there where you can have a brief purging of whatever negativity has battered its way into your feelings. Spend as much time as you can in the lead up to the party infusing the area the party will be in with positive energy. Project your positive feelings into things that will hold that energy and slowly let it back into the environment. I hope things go well for you.