Little bit confused about spells

[Kerli]

Hello!
I have a question to you. So...i know there are spells to make someone fall in love with you etc..i have tried 2 love spells to win a love of one guy i like very much. Then again there are people who tell that never use spell on someone. Is it dangerous? I am really in love with one guy and i really want to use spells... and i want to continue with them because i feel like spells are my only way.

[Thirteen]

Hello!
I have a question to you. So...i know there are spells to make someone fall in love with you etc..i have tried 2 love spells to win a love of one guy i like very much. Then again there are people who tell that never use spell on someone. Is it dangerous? I am really in love with one guy and i really want to use spells... and i want to continue with them because i feel like spells are my only way.

Magick should never be used to influence someone's free will. In my opinion that breaks the Wiccan Rede. Asking the use of Magick to bring love is different than forcing it upon someone to create romantic feelings towards you. If you feel Magick is your only method of gaining this man's affections, then perhaps you should try searching for someone else. Or just focus on your own development and wait for love to find its way towards you without commanding it.

Spells to bring love are controversial enough. These spells are designed to encourage love's path to you, it shouldn't be used on a specific individual. I'm sorry. Blessings.

[Siona]

Then again there are people who tell that never use spell on someone. Is it dangerous? .

Different people have different opinions on what spells are and aren't acceptable. Nica_13 mentioned the Wiccan Rede, and there is also the three-fold law, but it's also important to note that these beliefs are not universal to all witches or people who practice magic. In the case of love spells, many say they're not appropriate not so much because they're dangerous, but because you're bending someone's free will. Again, not everyone who does magic will take an issue with that, there are numerous traditions where this is considered a legitimate use of magic - but there are plenty who think it's wrong, too.

I won't tell you that you should or should not do those types of spells, it's something you'll have to decide on your own, but you should think really carefully on why you want to do the spell, and the possible repercussions of such a spell. I mean think about it, say your spells works (and there is no promise that it will), and this person falls in love with you... and you spend your entire relationship knowing that they only love you because of this, not for any deeper reasons. Is that really a way to build a relationship with someone you claim to love?

[Thirteen]

Then again there are people who tell that never use spell on someone. Is it dangerous? .

Different people have different opinions on what spells are and aren't acceptable. Nica_13 mentioned the Wiccan Rede, and there is also the three-fold law, but it's also important to note that these beliefs are not universal to all witches or people who practice magic. In the case of love spells, many say they're not appropriate not so much because they're dangerous, but because you're bending someone's free will. Again, not everyone who does magic will take an issue with that, there are numerous traditions where this is considered a legitimate use of magic - but there are plenty who think it's wrong, too.

I won't tell you that you should or should not do those types of spells, it's something you'll have to decide on your own, but you should think really carefully on why you want to do the spell, and the possible repercussions of such a spell. I mean think about it, say your spells works (and there is no promise that it will), and this person falls in love with you... and you spend your entire relationship knowing that they only love you because of this, not for any deeper reasons. Is that really a way to build a relationship with someone you claim to love?

Beautifully spoken. Everyone has to make their own choices, but please consider the consenquences as Siona mentioned.

[Echo_of_shadows]

Then again there are people who tell that never use spell on someone. Is it dangerous? .

Different people have different opinions on what spells are and aren't acceptable. Nica_13 mentioned the Wiccan Rede, and there is also the three-fold law, but it's also important to note that these beliefs are not universal to all witches or people who practice magic. In the case of love spells, many say they're not appropriate not so much because they're dangerous, but because you're bending someone's free will. Again, not everyone who does magic will take an issue with that, there are numerous traditions where this is considered a legitimate use of magic - but there are plenty who think it's wrong, too.

I won't tell you that you should or should not do those types of spells, it's something you'll have to decide on your own, but you should think really carefully on why you want to do the spell, and the possible repercussions of such a spell. I mean think about it, say your spells works (and there is no promise that it will), and this person falls in love with you... and you spend your entire relationship knowing that they only love you because of this, not for any deeper reasons. Is that really a way to build a relationship with someone you claim to love?

Beautifully spoken. Everyone has to make their own choices, but please consider the consenquences as Siona mentioned.

I agree. Those are some good answers you two.
My suggestion to you Kerli, is to decide for yourself how you feel about the situation. Put yourself into your intended's situation: would you want someone to make you fall in love? I know it's a long topic, but I suggest reading at least a part of Love Spells - Opinions, Advice, and More... to help you get a feel for love spells. Get to know what love spells are, what they aren't and what some of the consequences of using them are. Knowledge is power; use it wisely.

[Kerli]

Thanks for all of your responses. I want to say tha maybe i'm a bit too dramatic about winning his love. Actually I just want to see him because I haven't seen him for many months because he has a new job now, we worked closed to each other and we smiled to each other... sometimes I noticed he's looking deeply into my eyes but he never said anything. I don't know if he was shy or what but I also noticed that he often looked at me and smiled separately.. secretly I fell in love with him but he has no idea about it. So I don't know maybe he liked me but why he never said anything... now I'm miss him very much because he was just so perfect. I never communicated with him. I regret that, but inside my heart I was waiting for him to start conversation.. So are there also any spells that I could just see him again because I want to use my chance to show him that I really want to communicate with him. I never showed out my emotions because I'm very shy.... Just seeing his face makes me happy...... I know if I had one more chance I would use it.
Can someone help me please...
I will also try out that spell to reveal what someone thinks of you.
I am so unhappy, really. I would even respect that if he has girlfriend, I just feel like I have to see him again.
(sorry if there are any mistakes. English isn't my mother language)

[Nyd]

I don't believe regular spells can make anyone fall in love with you, that would never consider it anyway.

If he really isn't into you, you can do all the spells you want it won't work. Especially being inexperienced.

But, if there is a chance he might feel the same, some of the energy directed towards him, but also inside you can lead to things happening that bring you closer together.
Maybe he will get a certain vibe from you, sort of like sensing your love and energy. Or maybe it will make your subconscious mind so focused on him, that you act and talk in a way that will signalize in a subtle manner that you are interested.
Sometimes these things even make us take risks we usually would not take...like approaching someone first.

[dolphinpatronus]

It seems to me that you both might be a bit shy. So if you are insistent on having a magical aid may I suggest some thing to boost your own confidence so that you can approach him & start a real conversation.
I have to get to bed now but if this idea interests you feel free to PM me & we can discuss it a bit more.

[Hollerdoller]

Hello Kerli,

A while ago, I was in you're shoes, and I chose to do a spell that encouraged love to come to me, instead of one that influenced the guy I was REALLY hoping would notice me. well, at first I had thought that the spell didn't work, the guy didn't notice me and actually started dating someone else, but about a month later, I bump into a guy at the store, and I felt a rush of energy like I feel in spell casting. it's been a year now and he and I are going strong and happy.
So even if you do cast a spell, there is no way of knowing how it will turn out for you in the end, I didn't get the man I wanted, I got the man I needed

[Nightwatcher]

Honestly, you don't need a magickal way to get his attention; just say something silly! He has a new job right? And because of the location you don't see him really? Well, just walk up and ask o exchange number/emails/Skypes/whatever to stay in touch. No pressure or anything; it will come off as casual and friendly. A spell (regardless of what kind of spell it is) is an aid. Think of it like a Band-Aid; it helps the problem but the problem/situation itself will not change until the body (aka you) does something about it.

For example, for a few months I was looking for a job. I did cast a spell to encourage job opportunities to come my way, but I also was sending out my resume, asking around for recommendations on where to apply; etc. The spell wasn't going to do the work for me. It's the same with the love spell; it can help encourage him to see you in a more romantic/favorable light, but if you keep quiet and just hope without even talking to him or having contact, it will do nothing.