Tarots and my father....

[Greek_Male_Witch]

Hi, as you know, me and my father we have WE HAVE A HUGE ISSUE, he is totally in his own world, especially after he re-married, he totally forgot me and my brother, but anyway, I had a fight with him, and because I was really upset (his wife gets in the way always, she intentionally making him act like he is a stranger to us) well I took my tarot deck and I made my own spread,so the 1 first card supposed to show me what she thinks (his wife) well she thinks about me and not in a good way, the second one shows what he thinks and its support toward her (I didn't know that, he is supporting her, thats why he is so overprotective when I talk about her, I thought he was just fooled by her, but its his fault after all) the third card is what keep the together, and its DEATH, I interpreted it that way, his new wife have lost both her parents and my father have mentioned he kinda feel sorry for her and stuff, and the last one was how can I break them up and I think the divine just slapped me "Error" the card actually told me I was wrong by trying to break them up, well I was upset at the moment so don't judge me, I didn't do anything to break them up, but why I should always act like the GOOD person who gets kicked and slapped (metaphorically) and stuff? thoughts

[N.R. Naiacinaed]

Hmmm... I am unsure as to why... but maybe there is a lesson to be learned from this situation. Perhaps patience with your stepmother? I don't know the situation myself, but perhaps she just feels alone and that is why she is so miseable, or her thoughts are so unpleasant. Of course, I don't know her myself, but that is just the direction my thoughts went in.

In any case, if you ever need to talk, feel free to look me up, hun. =)

[Greek_Male_Witch]

No no no, I mean you don't know the situation thats why you thoughts thats why she is acting that way, her problem is my father seeing us, how good can this be?

[WitchyLady506]

I would ask your stepmother what her problem is with her husband having a relationship with his own children. Make sure to do so in a very mature way. And tell her that you would like for all of you to be a family and to see her as a true mother figure, but all you see her as of now is someone who stands as a roadblock between your father and you. She may not like that you father has children with another woman, but she has no control over that and that was part of what she got when she decided to be with your father. I would just try to talk with her as you see her as the problem. Also remind her that all you want is to know your father and that we all only have so much time in this life.

[Earth Ritual]

I would ask your stepmother what her problem is with her husband having a relationship with his own children. Make sure to do so in a very mature way. And tell her that you would like for all of you to be a family and to see her as a true mother figure, but all you see her as of now is someone who stands as a roadblock between your father and you. She may not like that you father has children with another woman, but she has no control over that and that was part of what she got when she decided to be with your father. I would just try to talk with her as you see her as the problem. Also remind her that all you want is to know your father and that we all only have so much time in this life.

That's right. And make a honey jar for her. Send her and your father some love. It may not appear this way on the surface but there really is enough love to around.

Earth Ritual

[N.R. Naiacinaed]

No no no, I mean you don't know the situation thats why you thoughts thats why she is acting that way, her problem is my father seeing us, how good can this be?

I stated that myself in my post, darlin.

I agree with the posts above me. Usually in situations like this it is best to talk to the person. Sometimes a good old heart to heart can really clear up a lot of confusion and even misplaced anger.

A honey jar? How do you make one of those, EarthRitual?

[Earth Ritual]

honey jar:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

[Kaimira]

did you just say honey jar? yum i am getting hungery now heheh