It seems a little stereotypical but I'm a cat person. (Oh heavens a witch -in training- who likes cats??) I worked with cat rescue even fostered some. I own or am owned by four.
If my daughter might be a witch waiting to blossom her familiar is definitely one of our cats. They've had a bond for years. The other three are drawn to me but only one picks me as a first choice. The other two have favorites or times I am their favorite. But the one drawn to me DRIVES ME CRAZY. She's got the whiniest teenage girl meow you could ever ask a cat to have and she likes to bestow it upon me at 4 am because the food dish is unacceptably half empty. She's definitely mamas girl in that she has to be wherever I am
So is she my familiar and I haven't acknowledged her as such because of her little nuisances? I mean I love her as much as I want to wring her little neck sometimes. Lol.
Is a familiar like a friend and you can have those kinds of differences or is the connection flawed and I haven't found one yet?
Me and one of the cats. She chooses me if my husband isn't home.
This big guy is very lovey but I share "mama-ship" with a lady across the street.
This is the one that loves me but drives me nuts. Beautiful isn't she?