Yeah the date had to be the hardest thing for me! It took me weeks to get a date, then one day i just said April June or July. June and July seamed like it whould be to hot, so april it was, and the date was way easyer, my cousins wedding will be the week befor so i picked the last saterday in april the 28th sence its so soon i picked the last posable chance. May is my sister birthday and i didnt want to take that time away from her. For me once i picked the mounth the date came fast. Just took a while to get the right mounth.
Cheek you areas past weather if your haveing an outdoors wedding and pick the dryest mounth. even if its going to be indoors it still isnt a bad idea to pick a dry mounth anyways...dont want it to be storming on your wedding day! I have also been told not to marru in May thats the Goddess'swedding mounth. If i remeber correctly.
Also i will not be useing that handfasting i posted. so feel free to use it all or parts if you like, i whouldnt have minded if you did in the first place, but i think its was beautifull and just dont want it to go to wast

i might submit it into a website or something.