Advice and direction required

[Lostandconfused]

Hi everyone,

So I guess I'm not entirely sure what I'm asking for, so I"ll explain the situation and what I feel I need, and then feel free to offer your thoughts/advice/spells to help me.

I had an affair with a married man, I was also married, but extremely unhappy. I got caught by my husband and I left him as I couldn't stand the idea that I cheated and hurt him. The married man went back to his wife and ended it with me, his reasoning was that although he loved me, and that in a perfect world I would be his choice, that he couldn't bring himself to destroy his family.

I'm stuck between feeling like I lost everything and he has walked away scot free, that I love him and wish he would pick me, being angry that he is too spineless to fight for me. Heartbroken over the whole thing.

To make matters worse we work together so I can't avoid him.

I don't want a love spell. I don't think they are right. But is there a spell (and is it right) to give him the courage to do what he actually wants, to give him clarity? If that's be with me then great, if not then so be it.

Do I just cast a spell to heal myself and move on?

Do I said f*ck it and just tell his wife everything?

I had my cards read and they said we would end up together in the future. Is there any truth in card readings?

[barker]

Ultimately life is wisely in any circumstance you find yourself in. Any person who knows that accepts situations for what they are. I'm saying: not to worry if it doesn't happen, maybe you love him enough to leave it all up to him.

[SpiritTalker]

Just based on what you've shared, I'd say he's made his decision. Your choices of a next step are directed by how you respond to that. He's taken himself out of the picture. Your feelings matter but they change nothing. Take care of yourself - do a self healing. Look for a better job opportunity & get your life back on track. Do you want to base your reality on a reading from a deck of cards or on your own choices? Which one holds more value for you? What are some other ways to look at it?

Hugs to you. It ain't ever easy to let go.