Everything Under the Moon

So, I met this guy at work a couple weeks ago. He was a temp and I didn't really work with him at all cause he was in a different department, but he would always turn and stare in the break room and seemed nervous or shy. I didn't mind cause he's tall and handsome. I thought it was weird the way he would turn 180° to look at me, a another guy, but never said anything. I later found out from a friend that he had asked about me and told my friend he was curious about me. I tried to talk to him once, but he kept fumbling over everything and smiling. Thought I was making him uncomfortable, even though he said I wasn't. The conversation went nowhere cause he was making me nervous & I could tell he was obviously nervous.
To make a long story short, he was let go and I wish I had talked to him again, even if it hadn't turned out to be any thing romantic. It may seem silly, but I haven't stopped thinking about him and I don't know why. I feel like there's something left unsaid and it's bothering me because neither of us had the courage to say anything to one another.

Is there some kind of spell I can do that could possibly reconnect us? All I know is his first name, age and where's he's from. Any ideas or insight would be lovely.

Someone had a paths crossing spell under discussion of spells

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Hi Etbonusmalum. OK, a couple thoughts on this... For one, we have a way of getting from the universe exactly what we ask for, so yeah, you might very well find him. However, don't be surprised if it wasn't all you thought it would be. There might be a good reason you guys never hit it off in the first place (for instance, the guy might be a total passive-aggressive jerk), so be prepared for that. We humans tend to fondly romanticize people and things (especially when we're a bit bored in our lives, and focus on other people so we don't have to focus on ourselves). Sometimes there's a lot more pleasure in the wanting, than there is in the getting.

Second, I was taught it's important to put a time limit on these kinds of things. In your case, maybe give your search 3 weeks, a month, whatever you decide. If nothing comes of it, just cease your efforts, and let it go. To get too into this starts getting desperate, creepy and stalkerish, and you don't want that. Set a time limit, and stick to it.


Anyway, some possible things you could do might include:

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As they say in Hollywood, "Have your people talk to his people." In other words, ask your spirit allies to contact his spirit allies, and have them put in a good word about you to him, and encourage him to contact you...if that makes any sense, lol. Maybe do this through a candle meditation.

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I've seen that paths crossing spell SpiriTalker mentioned around here somewhere, but couldn't find it. I did find this spell, though: http://everythingunderthemoon.net/forum ... 26347.html. Since you don't have a photo, maybe substitute with a piece of paper from work with the company logo on it (a type of sigil), since that's all you have in common; this is just to use to triangulate his energy.

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Use a pendulum to scry over a local map, and see what you get. I don't even know if they make Thomas Guides anymore (which would serve as a good map), so print a map of your city from the internet, and use that. There's a lot of info on pendulums in various forums here, as well as all over the internet. If you don't get anything citywide, put it away for a day or two, and then try regional. If that doesn't work, try statewide, etc, keep expanding.

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You could do this "hand attenna" thing that looks (and feels) pretty stupid, but I found actually works very well, at least generally-speaking. We all have a chakra in the center of our palms, and I learned this technique from a chapter in Paramhansa Yogananda's autobiography: http://www.crystalclarity.com/yogananda/chap28.php. I used to find lost things around the house using this technique (albeit not as lofty an application as in Yogananda's case, haha).

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And finally, it sure would be a lot easier if he came to you instead, right? Suppose he felt this urge to visit the workplace (or leave you a note, or whatever), and say hi to you.

You could give him an energetic nudge to do so by doing a skull candle spell at about 3am in the morning (hopefully he's still in your time zone). In hoodoo, skull candle spells are to speak directly to someone's mind. So you could say some heartfelt things, though I think this person intuitively already knows how you feel about him. The 3am is just because there's a lot less radio waves and other "chatter" going on then, and he's more likely to "hear" you psychically (and maybe literally), depending on how sensitive he is. Also, people are easier to connect to when they're sleeping.



Good luck.





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Wow, thanks Kassandra! This what I needed!

Yea, I'm aware things may not be how they seem between us. And although I can tell I made him nervous, I never felt like he was homophobic. Just shy and nervous.
Like I said, these are some great tips. I'll choose one and give it a little time to work. If not, I'll definitely move on.

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Try burning a green candle, dressed with a rose or lavender oil, on a Friday while the moon is waxing. Burn the candle on top of a small jar filled with sugar or honey, with a petition paper placed inside. Stare into the candle flame for several minutes (10 minutes is usually a good amount of time) while visualizing this guy coming back into your life. Then release your desire to the universe and forget about it. Sometimes we have to forget about things in order for them to manifest. This is because the conscious mind has a nasty habit of keeping our desires trapped and imprisoned. Good luck

these are some great tips. I'll choose one and give it a little time to work. If not, I'll definitely move on.

Sounds good Etbonusmalum, glad it helps.

Nice candle spell, Oakheart.



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