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That would honestly be up to you and what you think is morally acceptable. Some people in the magical community wouldn't consider it okay to mess with someone's free will like that. But you know... the strongest spells are the ones we make up ourselves.



Blessed Be

Hey, there.
Unfortunately people change. And they don't always change for the better. I am afraid TwilightDancer is right - there aren't many people who would offer you help on messing with someone's mind. I think you should think the situation through first - has he really changed, or is it you just can't cope with the thought of him dating another lady? Is he really mean or do you trigger this behavior in some way? In a broken relationship it's never just one of the partners. And maybe you feel lost and abandoned, but spells are not always the solution. I would suggest you sit and really think about the situation before taking any actions.
You can also try a spell to help you get over him and let go of all bad feelings (I am sure there are several in the "Post a spell or ritual" section).
And again, as TwilightDancer said, the most powerful spells are the ones that we create.

Hi Pink Cupcake, sorry that that's happened to you. You probably won't like this answer, but there are some truly nasty people who act sweet and romantic up until a point in a relationship (they may even claim to be your soulmate), and then they reveal their true colors and turn out to be really terrible, awful people. In my experience, there is just no amount of spellwork or magic that can turn them nice again -- their monstrous side is just too strong, and their sweet side is just a veneer. I would ask if you TRULY want to be in a relationship with this man again, knowing just how awful he is capable of being towards you ... You may very well be better off having nothing to do with him.

Its already been said above and beautifully so.

Everyone has their path, some people change and not always for the best. I would never recommend messing with another life, or someone's path. I firmly believe that people all have a path that they must walk, and its not always a smooth path. It may look negative or dark from the outside, but you dont know what is really going on there. He might need to go this way to learn some valuable lessons.

Its already been said above and beautifully so.

Everyone has their path, some people change and not always for the best. I would never recommend messing with another life, or someone's path. I firmly believe that people all have a path that they must walk, and its not always a smooth path. It may look negative or dark from the outside, but you dont know what is really going on there. He might need to go this way to learn some valuable lessons.

Exactly, and taking away that person's path takes away lessons learned and their growth as a person.



Blessed Be

Hey, I'm sorry but I'm going to have to agree with the others. I don't think there's a way you could do it either, and even if you could I would strongly suggest against trying it. It's all up to you, of course, as Twilight said. With what you view as morally alright, I personally wouldn't try to do anything that would alter someone's free will. I do believe that everything happens for a reason, and unfortunately this is just one of those harder to accept changes that life likes to throw your way.

I personally think it would be better to try and keep him out of your life as much as possible. Granted, I know you have a child together but if he left you both then he doesn't seem to care as horrible as it sounds. ): You might try something that will lift your spirits instead? And grant you the strength to continue overcoming such a difficult obstacle.

With whatever you decide, I hope that you feel better and find peace with the situation. (:

Sorry to revive an old post but this really hits home for me.

I have a child with an ex too and he is "seemingly" a completely different person. I understand how hard it is. We lived together and we going to get married. I thought he was it. I got pregnant and he became abusive, seemingly out of nowhere. I left but I was so confused and conflicted as to why he changed and what would make him change back. It took a long time for me to realize the truth. He didn't change, I did. Sure he wasn't abusive the whole time but he was always capable of it and I just didn't see how truly weak he was. The truth is we all are capable of not being great people, some more than others. It's a choice to treat people bad and it's a choice to start being a better person. I would suggest not waiting around for him to make the better choice.