All is a matter of faith and what we believe. Years ago I would have thought this was abject silliness. Just the stupid rantings of some backwards hick. It is just that once things start happening over and over, the dots start to connect. Like repeating a scientific experiment and replicating findings.
Exactly! All is a matter of faith and what we believe!
Same thing applies to scientific experiments. Doing an experiment requires a hypothesis first. The hypothesis can be either confirmed or refuted. BUT the funny phenomenon that often appears during experiments is that once you, let's say, confirm a hypothesis it is more likely to be confirmed each time you repeat the experiment. It's called an "Observer effect" which existence was confirmed in quantum physics experiments. The effect basically means that the observer/experimenter can influence the outcome of the experiment simply by thinking about it. That's why there's plenty of scientific facts contradicting eachother. You can always find ways to both confirm and refute any hypothesis, depending on what you
want to do.
So I think it's better to use it in a positive, beneficial way.
Not to repeat myself, but several weeks I was ignoring her, moving forward and working on my own situation without her in it. I entirely agreed that by focusing on her, I was feeding into it so I determined to move on. I did a number of things to raise vibrational frequencies, get past her and not even give her a fleeting thought.
See, that's the thing. Ignoring doesn't equal forgetting/not believing/forgiving.
Ignoring is an active approach which means that you actually spend energy to actively suppress something.
It's like asking someone not to think about a white bear. The person will most likely think about the white bear. And if not - he/she will only manage to prevent the thought (about a white bear) from surfacing into the conscious mind. It takes effort. And when you need to constantly put effort into suppressing something then you don't have that much energy left for other things = your effectivity drops. Same thing with traumas - people put so much effort into suppressing the memory of the trauma that they suffer from side effects - anxiety, dreaming about it, nervous tics etc. It takes so much effort to keep the unwanted memory at bay that such people don't have as much psychic energy as a regular non-traumatized person does.
We should realize that there's a choice to be made: accept our own weaknesses; look for your possible role in this discord (what have you done, that she gets so mad at you?) -- or allow negative thoughts and emotions to contribute to the effectivity and life expectancy of the curse. Approaching the offender and forging her unconditionally for the pain she has caused you. There's still a long and painful road ahead before complete breaking of curses, but the willingness to forgive is the crucial first step. As long as both are in their current mode, this will continue. Once they change this, there's a hope of moving forward.
Precisely Seraphin.
Letting go,
really letting go is the only way out of this situation. It might be a painful and demanding process but it's totally worth the effort. No one deserves to suffer! Allow yourself to find your inner peace, it's your birthright.
I wish you all the best, Marigold!
