Concerned a friend is under spell

[Soda]

Hi

I'm new here so pardon my ignorance but my friend and I Are at a loss with our best mate.
About 6-7 month's ago, our male friend attitude towards life and people began to change.
We also both suspected he was seeing someone very secretively but every time we would question their relationship, he would brush it off saying they are just friends.
There are, however, too many coincidences to be a coincident and we both now know (through black and white proof) that they are seeing each other.
It's not the fact he's seeing someone that we are concerned, it's who and what she is doing.
Every trait he hates in a female, she has.
He prides himself on telling the truth and he is lying beyond belief.
Everywhere he goes, she follows and he dislikes clingers. She has created a wedge between him and his family and friends. She speaks ill of everyone and starts rumours. His friends are starting to dislike who he is.
It's like she has cast a spell on him and he can't quite break free.
Some days you see the glimpse of the old him but then he spends some time with her and the old him is gone.
Just last night, I spoke to my friend about the possibility of a spell being cast on him and she said "Well, the girl he's seeing told me ages ago that she is into spells"..
He has lost his power and yet he is one of the most intelligent people I have ever met and it literally breaks my heart to see what's happening.
I don't know if it's a love spell she has cast but I need to reverse whatever it Is that she has done. I want my friend back and her litterally gone from this town..

So Please, if anyone can help, I would appreciate it.
It's killing me.

[Firebird]

This does frequently occur when one of the gang of buddies gets a girlfriend. They get strange, they spend more time with the girl, they are drugged with oxytocin and want more. It happens. Try to arrange regular get-togethers with the guys and then ones that includes the girl. You will do better to get to know her rather than think she has put a spell on him. If after you get to know her and you still think she is messing with him, ...then gather the evidence and present it to the friend. At that point you might try binding or severing spells.
In the mean while swing by the intro section and let us know a little bit about your path, Thanks!
BB, Firebird

[Soda]

This does frequently occur when one of the gang of buddies gets a girlfriend. They get strange, they spend more time with the girl, they are drugged with oxytocin and want more. It happens. Try to arrange regular get-togethers with the guys and then ones that includes the girl. You will do better to get to know her rather than think she has put a spell on him. If after you get to know her and you still think she is messing with him, ...then gather the evidence and present it to the friend. At that point you might try binding or severing spells.
In the mean while swing by the intro section and let us know a little bit about your path, Thanks!
BB, Firebird

Everything you have suggested, we have done. Even presenting evidence hasn't swayed him. He just lies through it or shuts down and changes the topic.
My friend was friends with her at one stage until she said to my friend "I only became friends with you to see what you were about and know what you were doing."
My friend is now a victim of rumours spread by her and he is literally pushing everyone away.
She has wanted him for quite a while and as soon as his wife passed, she started to slowly make her move.
What kind of binding or severing spells could I try Please?
My friend and I Are so desperate to see him truly happy again and his normal self. We are so drained ourselves trying to persevere with keeping our friendship with him because he is a wonderful person but this is not him at all.
Thanks

I will swing by the intro section too.

[SpiritTalker]

I can understand your anxiety for your friend and can only suggest you do your best to get off the emotional merry-go-round. You need your wits under control if you are going to do any good for your friend. You don't want to flood any counter effort with your anxiety. First, ask yourself - is he suffering? If you were dating someone you knew others didn't approve of, how would you behave? How long since his wife passed? And remember, it's not about you and what you want for him. It's about him & his choice.

Think of a hex as any influence thathas a bad effect on the subject. If you'd be open to a hex-remover, you can do this candle spell 3 times a day for 3 days. Put your friend's name on the candle (or written on a piece of paper placed under the candle holder). Use a white taper candle. Rub a few dabs of olive oil between your hands & roll the candle between your palms to oil the candle. Oil holds your psychic energy to the candle. State your intention in a few present tense, positive words and be very clear on it as you roll the candle. Set it in it's holder and light it. Then softly read Psalm 119, verse 97-104 for 3 times. Spend some quiet time gazing into the flame while quietly giving thanks and knowing your friend is free of any burden hindering him. You can let the candle burn out & use a fresh candle each day but if you can't, spells are very flexible &'it is Ok to snuff it & relight it later. Just to be clear, each session is three readings of the vs 97-104 followed by some quiet candle gazing thanksgiving. Then repeated the next day and the next. It's not a problem if you don't have prior spell experience.

Best wishes

[Soda]

I can understand your anxiety for your friend and can only suggest you do your best to get off the emotional merry-go-round. You need your wits under control if you are going to do any good for your friend. You don't want to floor any counter effort with your anxiety. First, ask yourself - is he suffering? If you were dating someone you knew others didn't approve of, how would you behave?

Think of a hex as any influence thathas a bad effect on the subject. If you'd be open to a hex-remover, you can do this candle spell 3 times a day for 3 days. Put your friend's name on the candle (or written on a piece of paper placed under the candle holder). Use a white taper candle. Rub a few dabs of olive oil between your hands & roll the candle between your palms to oil the candle. Oil holds your psychic energy to the candle. State your intention in a few present tense, positive words and be very clear on it as you roll the candle. Set it in it's holder and light it. Then softly read Psalm 119, verse 97-104 for 3 times. Spend some quiet time gazing into the flame while quietly giving thanks and knowing your friend is free of any burden hindering him. You can let the candle burn out & use a fresh candle each day but if you can't, spells are very flexible &'it is Ok to snuff it & relight it later. Just to be clear, each session is three readings of the vs 97-104 followed by some quiet candle gazing thanksgiving. Then repeated the
next day and the next. It's not a problem if you don't have prior spell experience.

Best wishes

I do honestly believe he is suffering in a way. His health is declining. He's not sleeping. He doesn't care what happens to him as long as there is someone to look after his child if he left this earth.
I understand that I would probably ignore people initially if they didn't like who I was dating but if I noticed people around me who were no longer wanting to be around me, I would like to think I would look into what they are saying.

When you say:
State your intention in a few present tense, positive words

I'm scared I'll say the wrong thing. Am I supposed to say something like "bring my friend back"?
Sorry. I am very new to this.
Do I also need to fill the removed negative energy with positive energy in this case?

Thank you

[SpiritTalker]

Say "name" is free of any influence against his will.
Short, positive and present tense.
It's not about what you want for him. It's about his choice, as an adult human being. He could be grieving his late wife.

Edit. Using positive present tense phrasing is positive filler.

[Soda]

Say "name" is free of any influence against his will.
Short, positive and present tense.
It's not about what you want for him. It's about his choice, as an adult human being. He could be grieving his late wife.

Edit. Using positive present tense phrasing is positive filler.

Thank you.
I endeavour to try this.
And I do believe he is still grieving his late wife.
He has been through so much and my friend and I only want happiness for him. He deserves more than what we feel he is being treated by this woman.
I am grateful for your help.

[Firebird]

Oh dang. Do you think she may be absusing him? Please look into the dynamics of that.
Does this woman has any redeeming qualities? He may be mostly concerned about the child, isn't there anyone else in the family who he could rely on in case something happens?. And unless he marries her, child would go to next of kin.
A clarity spell might help. Although I would be uncomfortable preforming this unless your friend knew you were doing it.
Bb, FF

[Soda]

Oh dang. Do you think she may be absing him? Please look into the dynamics of that.
Does this woman has any redeeming qualities? He may be mostly concerned about the child, isn't there anyone else in the family who he could rely on in case something happens?. And unless he marries her, child would go to next of kin.
A clarity spell might help. Although I would be uncomfortable preforming this unless your friend knew you were doing it.
Bb, FF

In a way, yes.
She has no redeeming qualities. She has made quite a name for herself in town at the moment and not in a good way.
Everyone dislikes her...everyone. Her best friend has even stopped talking to her from all the lies she's told.
In her presence, I feel ill - literally. There is so much negative energy around because of her and yet he still associates with her which is so hard to believe because he's extremely smart and can always sense good and bad in people. He has known her for quite some time (family friend).
He just keeps saying to me "something's not right" (referring to within himself).
He would think I was crazy if I told him I was wanting to perform a clarity spell and I'd be concerned if I suggested it, he would tell her.

He does have family and myself and friend if anything happened. His child would always be safe.
He swore he would never marry again but I think she has intentions to attempt to see otherwise...

[SnowCat]

You could do a clarity spell for yourself, to be sure your seeing things accurately. It might also give you some insight into helping him.

Snow

[Soda]

You could do a clarity spell for yourself, to be sure your seeing things accurately. It might also give you some insight into helping him.

Snow

I really appreciate your suggestion and perhaps that should be my first port of call.
Do you have one in particular that I could use?

[SnowCat]

I have always used white candles. I put my intention into the lighting of the candle, and let it burn completely down.

Snow

[Soda]

I have always used white candles. I put my intention into the lighting of the candle, and let it burn completely down.

Snow

Thank you.
In all honesty, it will probably help give me a clearer mindset before doing anything else which is what I need.
Grateful for the advice.

[Soda]

I can understand your anxiety for your friend and can only suggest you do your best to get off the emotional merry-go-round. You need your wits under control if you are going to do any good for your friend. You don't want to floor any counter effort with your anxiety. First, ask yourself - is he suffering? If you were dating someone you knew others didn't approve of, how would you behave?

Think of a hex as any influence thathas a bad effect on the subject. If you'd be open to a hex-remover, you can do this candle spell 3 times a day for 3 days. Put your friend's name on the candle (or written on a piece of paper placed under the candle holder). Use a white taper candle. Rub a few dabs of olive oil between your hands & roll the candle between your palms to oil the candle. Oil holds your psychic energy to the candle. State your intention in a few present tense, positive words and be very clear on it as you roll the candle. Set it in it's holder and light it. Then softly read Psalm 119, verse 97-104 for 3 times. Spend some quiet time gazing into the flame while quietly giving thanks and knowing your friend is free of any burden hindering him. You can let the candle burn out & use a fresh candle each day but if you can't, spells are very flexible &'it is Ok to snuff it & relight it later. Just to be clear, each session is three readings of the vs 97-104 followed by some quiet candle gazing thanksgiving. Then repeated the
next day and the next. It's not a problem if you don't have prior spell experience.

Best wishes

I do honestly believe he is suffering in a way. His health is declining. He's not sleeping. He doesn't care what happens to him as long as there is someone to look after his child if he left this earth.
I understand that I would probably ignore people initially if they didn't like who I was dating but if I noticed people around me who were no longer wanting to be around me, I would like to think I would look into what they are saying.

When you say:
State your intention in a few present tense, positive words

I'm scared I'll say the wrong thing. Am I supposed to say something like "bring my friend back"?
Sorry. I am very new to this.
Do I also need to fill the removed negative energy with positive energy in this case?

Thank you

Just double checking but is this performed 3 times per day for 3 days or just once a day for 3 days?
Regardless, I understand the psalm is read 3 times per session.
Thanks

[SpiritTalker]

1 session of three readings per day for 3 consecutive days so the verse is said a total of 9 times