Need Help with Love Spell

[Xiao Rong]

Hello Liquidfire, and merry meet!

I'm not exactly an expert on love spells, so I'm going to move this to the General Questions section and hopefully others will chime in as well.

It's very possible that now is simply not the right time, although it will come to you eventually. There are some things that are outside of your control of magic. I have sometimes found, though, that instead of trying to do everything in your power to control the situation, you sometimes need to relax and go along with the flow of the Universe. It's like if you were caught in a river: you can expend all that energy clinging to a rock and trying to climb out to dry land, or you can relax and float with the current to where you needed to go anyway. Only once you have surrendered control over the world at large, can you be open to the Universe bringing you its blessings in its own way and its own time.

That would be my first instinct; I'd be curious to know what others say on the matter too.

[Firebird]

I like what Xiao said about letting go and going with the flow. More often than not, if I release my grip on whatever I am obsessing about, it comes to pass, or it finally manifests.
Can I ask your age? because, well..... I just want to throw this out there...if you are young, keep in mind the vast fishes in the sea. We can be in a hurry to move on with love and life, when in fact the one who would be truly right for us is years down the road.
I would suggest leaving it open to the universe, then let it go.
best wishes, Firebird

[Jake1001]

As the other 2 said, It's possible the universe doesn't want you to go through with this right now, you said you tried from september, up untill january which is quite a few months, give it a break, and give it a rest, overdoing the spell over and over can really backfire badly. Maybe not right now but if you keep doing it and the universe rejects it. It could backfire. Maybe this person isn't your first love, maybe it is. But all Im saying is you just need to roll with it, for the next few months and see if its actually ment to be or not WITHOUT magick.