Stupid /young/ Love Binding Spells, That SHOULD be broken.

[Meta Marijona]

Hello all, Sorry I haven't posted and haven't been active very much at all since I was so eager about joining this forum. I recently got my first ever job, working 8 hours a day, and 4 days a week. I'm buried in school work. And I'm consumed in thousands of the billions of things going on in my head/life right now.
But anyway, that's not the point. In the heavy mist of all of that, I realized something that would have been wise to come apparent to long ago. Something that I should not have done.
But me, being only 16(currently), I'm glad I can realize this and these things now, as early as is. Some people come to NEVER realize there wrongs.
Ever since I've gotten into witchcraft and all of the sorts I've been tied up in the fascination of love spells, binding love, etc. Which is VERY bad for a 12-15 year old to start doing on others her age.

I remembered (today) that I did a binding spell on both of my exs, both whom became obsessed with me once we were over. I thought they were both just f**king crazy. But, since I was foolish with the craft, and didn't completely believe in anything I was doing, yet had hopes of it working, I still did the damn shit, without actually thinking of how "future" me would come to deal with this, if I were to (and I did) change.

So, the binding spell I did, basically was willing that these two former partners (while I was with them) to fall completely in love with me, and be able to find no other good match, if we were to part, AND that I am/were to be completely free of pain from the parting. As in, get over them quickly, and them unable to move on, despite us being complete opposites now, and having changed and not talking in MONTHS.

It was completely foolish, and dumb. My relationship now, I would NEVER think to tamper with it like I had with others.

I don't remember exactly the spell or ritual I had done, only the gist of it. and man-o-man, I regret it 1,000,000,000%

Can anyone help me with breaking the bind, or whatever there is that can be done?
Kids, do NOT do love binding spells. IF ever though one wishes for these to be done, I would suggest doing it for/at a wedding ritual/ceremony, or life bonding thing. But, even then I wouldn't do it. Don't tamper.

-Blessed Be-

[Lillady]

I agree with the love spells as I am one to never cast them. I did once when I first started practicing and just as it did for you I was overwhelmed by him. With love spells whether you are an adult or a adolescent it does not matter your age. Things can happen if you do not througholy understand or are undereducated. With love spells it is easy for them to backfire as so many of them seem to manlipulate another's will and that is clearly against the Wiccan Rede or what most of us here believe in. I am sorry to hear of what happened, but am glad you saw the light, sort of speak. Below I have posted a link to the page here for uncrossing spells. I wish you the best of luck. Blessed Be.

http://www.everythingunderthemoon.net/s ... spells.htm

[shatteredsouls]

I thought you needed to believe for the spells to work...

Anyway, I'm sorry about what happened. Don't be too hard on yourself, like you said, you realised it early and you've regretted. I hope things will turn out fine for you (and the two guys). It probably feels painful to be obsessed with someone. Good luck!