A true love? Or not?

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Re: A true love? Or not?

Postby YanaKhan » Tue Aug 05, 2014 3:24 am

Hey there.
Your sister will always wonder if she made the right choice. If she stays because of him, she will always blame him for staying and the relationship will go somewhat wrong because she will feel like she sacrificed a lot for him and every flaw he has will seem bigger in her eyes. I am not suggesting she should leave her boyfriend. But if going abroad is important to her, that's how it will go.
On the other hand - is going abroad for good? Because if not, their relationship can still survive if that's what they both want. Is it impossible for him to go with her? Does he want to?
These are questions your sister has to answer before she makes her choice. A spell for clarity is a good idea. She may also try meditating in the subject.

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Re: A true love? Or not?

Postby Deku » Tue Aug 05, 2014 12:25 pm

Ok. A spell for clarity

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Re: A true love? Or not?

Postby Sakura Blossom » Tue Aug 05, 2014 12:35 pm

I don't mean to be a nay-sayer, but perhaps not knowing is the best thing? If she truly wants to get some sort of insight, then perhaps allow her to get a reading herself? Or if that's not possible, as the others suggested try to get a reading for her? Sometimes things like this happen in life, and you won't ever know unless you try. (: She might just need to go with what she think is best, and discover on her own whether or not it was the right choice. Life is really all about trial and error, and if I were in this situation I would personally leave it up to fate. (:
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Re: A true love? Or not?

Postby Deku » Tue Aug 05, 2014 9:55 pm

Maybe you're right. But I'm more curious whether there's a spell for revealing the truth or not :)

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Re: A true love? Or not?

Postby Xiao Rong » Wed Aug 06, 2014 7:46 am

Also, what do we mean by "true love"? Are you asking if their relationship is healthy and worth pursuing? Or are you saying that your sister's relationship with a man is worthless if he is not her One True Love who is cosmically predestined to be her perfect match and only love in this life or whatever? (a different kind of true love, but I feel like this changes the question)

In my opinion, the real question isn't if this guy is her One True Love or not, but actually about her choice to go abroad or stay (which will affect their relationship), which in turn hinges on a series of questions:

1) What opportunities will she have if she does go and if she doesn't go?
2) Does she see this relationship as being a lasting one that is worth pursuing?
3) Is this relationship mutually fulfilling for the both of them?

Regardless, all of these are questions for her to answer, and not you, Deku.
Maybe you're right. But I'm more curious whether there's a spell for revealing the truth or not :)
In my experience, divination and magic won't reveal things to you that you are not supposed to know. If she wants an answer to these questions, she should be doing the asking. Divination will not help you pry into other people's business where it doesn't belong.

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Re: A true love? Or not?

Postby Deku » Wed Aug 06, 2014 8:10 am

Well, love topic is so active. She asked me, so I think as a brother, I can do something for her. But if there is nothing can I help, I'll tell her to manage herself. Thanks for all


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