last and final i did do a conjure spirit spell quite a few times BUT had no idea it was dark to do that !!!! they should put a spell up with out a warning sign lol but i didnt see any candles blow around or out when i did that so i closed the circle and thought nothing of it but i havent done spell like that in since ive start the craft
And there is the most likely source of your problem. Whether you were aware or not that performing that kind of spell is using dark magic, you've opened a door. I don't know what kind of spell you used, so I'll ask: Did you dismiss any spirits that may have answered you, even though you doubted that any appeared? Did your spell specify that the door was to shut behind them, for lack of a better term?
Unfortunately, it only takes
one spell, or even just missing a step in that kind of spell, to toss out the proverbial welcome mat, stating, "Please, do come in and you're quite welcome to do whatever you want while you're here. Oh, and feel free to take up permanent residence. Mi casa es su casa." The fact that you did it several times was probably like throwing up a neon sign over your head. Now, I'm of the school of thought that both light and dark magic can be used to the benefit of anyone. I don't equate either of them to "white/light/good" and "black/dark/bad", although I do firmly believe that the darker range should be considered advanced magic. It can be like trying to complete an alegbra problem before you've gotten adding and subtracting mastered.
That doesn't mean that you were flat out wrong to attempt those spells. Rather, you were inexperienced and now, you're wiser for it.
So,
definitely, absolutely, positively take measures to get rid of the entity (or entities), close that door, ward yourself and your home, and take the lesson to heart!
The definition of black/dark magic is hard to pin down. One of the more traditional ideas regarding it can be summed up with:
The concepts of black magic and white magic have been around for a very long time. According to the work of Alice Bailey “Treatise on White Magic,” first published in 1934, white magic can only be performed by someone who is healthy and pure of heart. Generally speaking, white magic serves others, whereas black magic serves the magician. But, black magic has its place, even in the practices of good witches. Traditional witches acknowledge and use black magic unapologetically.
The definition of black magic can be very broad or narrow. The broadest definition of black magic is any practice that the individual practitioner regards as wrong or immoral. By some definitions, black magic may involve spells for love and revenge. Black magic is not necessary bad or malevolent. It all depends on the spirit with which the magic is performed.
Source:
http://traditionalwitchcraftandoccultis ... itchcraft/
While this is a very loose way of describing the differences, it is how many Wiccans, and witches, regard the two. Many members of the board have piped up in this thread discussing light vs. dark:
http://everythingunderthemoon.net/forum ... light%20vs
In truth, I think it comes down to how you personally define the two.