How Do you create your own spells

[Tarah of the earth]

I was wondering is there any rules i should follow as to creating my own spells (other then not to harm and the times 3) is there anything really that can make a spell stick better or more potent ? Also is there a spell to help people to better get along and having this apply to a family? Thank you and may blessings be upon you.

[Holdasown]

You can use stones, herbs, crystals, candles anything that may correspond to what your doing.
The spell you want is a honey spell.Take a jar put in the names of the people you want to get along and add honey or sugar. Put and lid on it and keep it someplace safe.

[Pinkpower_80]

You can use stones, herbs, crystals, candles anything that may correspond to what your doing.
The spell you want is a honey spell.Take a jar put in the names of the people you want to get along and add honey or sugar. Put and lid on it and keep it someplace safe.

Oh I like that!

[dreadedpsychopomp]

The only real hard and fast rule with spells, at least in my experience, is not to combine things which contradict or refuse to mesh. If you call on other entities or forces for help, make sure they aren't at odds. If you want people to get along, for example, don't use a lot of red and call on Ares or mix honey and vinegar. A simple one might be to purify the area to be sure there's no energetically nasty gunk that people are picking up, then charging a nice scented candle with the intention of creating peace and harmony, then burn it. Every time you burn it, it can release those good vibes along with the scent. I hope this helps.