I Keep Dreaming of My Ex, Help!

[ShinobiGizmo]

I feel stuck/indecisive.

My problem is I seem to randomly dream of my ex fiance, Bree once a week. We've been broken up for 2 years now. The dream is never the same, but the feelings are always still intense. The latest dream I had, had me waking up feeling half the pain I felt when we broke up and gave me tears in my eyes.

It took me 6 months to feel moved on from her. And plus present day, I am dating&living with my wonderful girlfriend Shannon. So, I kinda would like to find a way to make these dreams stop.

I thought maybe one way could be if I covered up her initials that I got tatted (we had each other's initials but i'm sure she's lready covered up mine.) my friend doubted that would work though.

My 2nd idea was try a spell. But same friend said I'd be messing with destiny and that I shouldn't since it'd be a selfish act.

So, I don't know what to do. I want specifically those dreams of her to stop being so common. What would you do?

[AutumnMaidens]

Well if you want to get the tattoo covered up anyway, you could write a spell to accompany it.
Since the relationship with her has been dealt with, perhaps you are dreaming of her for other reasons, perhaps in your dreams she works as a symbol or something around you has reminded you of her a lot.

You could work magic to ban her from your dreams but honestly the more thoughts you dedicate to her the more you're going to be troubled.

Blessings

[ShinobiGizmo]

Hmm... A symbol. I wonder what of. I hadn't thought of that. Usually what my 1st thought of when I wake up is: wondering if felt like she were wanting me to come back to richmond, but then i dismiss the idea since i have no way to contact her.

And the thing is, i don't think about her. It seems i usually have a dream about her when i don't think about her. Because then i wake up the next day also thinking about random it was.

I had heard reoccuring dreams can be a message or lesson to be learned, but I'm not sure what these dreams about Bree would be telling me.
-She was my 1st physical local longterm relationship, my 2nd longest relationship (16 months).
-I gave it my all up til towards the end when i got depressed because my family&i were going through foreclosure. I almost had to live on the street.
-She was the 1st person to please me in a sexual manner. I didn't let people touch me before her.
-She was the bestest friend I thought I had ever had before she left me& then hated me out of the blue.

[ShinobiGizmo]

Oh yeah,
-She was the 1st person for me to not cheat on.
-When I had a job, I spoiled her. (For Valentine's Day, her gift was a total of $630.)

Hm....if Bree were a message, a lesson, or a symbol... No, i still don't understand what specifically she'd be trying to tell me :/

[movingcloud]

This is a new moon. This is the time to release things and let them go. Do a new moon ritual and ask that the God/ess help release you from these feelings. When we are sleeping, it is our subconscious that is at work...bringing forward some feeling that we have supressed. It is time to bring them to the forefront and get rid of them once and for all!!

[ShinobiGizmo]

Ah, I will try that. Thank you

[AutumnMaidens]

She could be a symbol of a strong relationship that ended for no reason, a foreboding of your subconcious telling you to be weary of what 'might' happen. I would suggest not to heed it and try to release her as best you can.

Bless

[ShinobiGizmo]

How would you release her? Mostly i release when I ground&center myself now