Root of the problem

[Sonni-Na]

Is there a spell to clear my mind and figure out what's causing me to be so short with my fiance? I keep snapping at him over really stupid stuff and it's not really him that's the issue, but I don't know what's wrong. Please help me!

[Ravencry]

I was like that when I first got pregnant. Is pregnancy a possibility? Thats how I knew there was something wrong, cause I never snapped at him before.

[Sonni-Na]

i can't completely rule that out, though we've been trying to be careful. I suppose I should take a test

[Ravencry]

I'm not trying to offend you, it just....I was nice and happy and treated my boyfriend great. And then one day, I just flipped and had no reason to. He was nothing but great to me, and I loved him with all my heart. Then I found out I was pregnant. the hormones turned me into a bitch. I didn't have morning sickness, either. Thats why I didn't notice it until my monthly didn't come.

I'm not saying that this is the only thing that could be causing it. Maybe your stressed out about something, like making rent or your car payment. When majority of people are stressed, they don't talk about it. They get moody and frustrated and snap at what seems like nothing later.

If it is stress and not pregnancy, then I can find you a spell to help with whatever it may be that your stressed about.

[icebunny]

Are you stressed out about work, school, etc.? Sometimes we turn those we love into our "whipping boys" unwittingly when we are under stress. I tend to snap at my friends and family when I'm upset....and I always feel awful afterwards. Try to work on settling your feelings about all the other stuff going on in your life, and focus on saying at least one sincere, kind thing to your significant other a day. Focusing on their positive aspects can make you smile and remember why you love them so much in the first place.